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“Resilience is our ability to survive and flourish through our traumas, stressors, responsibility shifts and challenges offered by life.”- Sherrie Campbell.
When I first embarked on my founder journey, I sought advice from a trusted friend who was already a seasoned professional in the field.
“Rhonda,” he said, there’s going to be feast and famine - days when you’re on top of your game, and other days when you are going to struggle. But if you can stay strong, and stay focused, it'll be one of the greatest things you’ve ever done.”
The Entrepreneurial Odyssey: Navigating Success and Challenges
Building a self-made business is a journey filled with a myriad of experiences. It encompasses both triumphant moments of unqualified success and daunting challenges that test one's resilience.
These ups and downs are inherent in the entrepreneurial path, shaping the narrative of the business's growth.
Amidst the inevitable challenges that arise, the key lies in equipping oneself with the right tools and strategies to navigate through turbulent times. These tools act as a shield, helping entrepreneurs weather the storms that are bound to come their way.
It is essential to anticipate these challenges, acknowledging that they are an integral part of the entrepreneurial landscape.
By embracing the unpredictability of the business world and arming oneself with resilience, determination, and adaptability, entrepreneurs can emerge from difficult situations relatively unscathed. The ability to pivot, innovate, and learn from setbacks is what sets successful self-made businesses apart.
What we’re talking about here, is RESILIENCE, which the Merriam-Webster dictionary describes as:
re·sil·ience | \ ri-ˈzil-yən(t)s \ (noun)
1: the capability of a strained body to recover its size and shape after deformation caused especially by compressive stress
2: an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change
The resilient among us are easy to spot – they’re the ones who refuse to give up even in the face of devastating loss or challenges.
“Entrepreneurs choose a life of hardship. They choose a life that will hopefully be marked by joy, achievement, laughter, and satisfaction, but will also inevitably be marked by confusion, chaos, change, fear, and disappointment. This is true of everyone’s lives, of course, but the entrepreneur chooses a life in which he or she is very likely to have higher highs and lower lows, in which the peaks of joy and troughs of dread are likely to be more vivid than if he or she made a safer choice.” -Eric Greitens
Unveiling the Mystery: Recognizing the Unseen
But here's the thing …How will we recognize it?
what are the qualities of resiliency?
What makes you become resilient?
Can someone be born with that resilient gene,
Or , can it be developed?
Here below, are 3 major qualities of resiliency/resilient people:
1. Self-respect is key:
True self-reliance is achieved by valuing oneself independently of others. It is essential to develop a strong self-connection, acting as our own source of comfort during challenging times, no matter the situation, and especially in moments of stress.
2. Resilient people are never perceived as needy, desperate or even overly reactive:
Their "centeredness" not only enhances their performance of tasks but also fosters strong emotional connections. Naturally resilient individuals exhibit heightened confidence and exceptional emotional intelligence.
They exude a sense of calmness and perceive rejection as a mere stepping stone towards new opportunities, or at the very least, a chance to pivot.
Confronted with challenges or difficult situations, they rise above without faltering - their determination stems from self-reliance and not relying on external resources.
3. They are discerning:
Those who are self-reliant in nature confidently understand that to achieve happiness and success in life and business, they must meticulously select their relationships. They recognize that any form of negativity breeds unnecessary drama, and therefore, they consciously avoid associating with individuals who exhibit arrogance, egotism, or greed.
This astute judgment extends to their commitment to cultivating or pursuing mutually beneficial relationships-both on a personal and professional level. They realize that without this foundation, no meaningful progress can be made by either party.
"It's okay to be brave and afraid at the same time" - Brene' Brown.
The Power of Resilience: Overcoming Adversity and Thriving
If you're interested in developing your resilience, there are several strategies you can explore. One key aspect is building a strong support network of friends, family, or mentors who can provide encouragement and guidance during tough times.
Additionally, practicing self-care and mindfulness can help you stay grounded and focused, even when things get tough.
Learning how to manage stress effectively, setting realistic goals, and cultivating a positive mindset are all important components of resilience. By developing these skills and habits, you can enhance your ability to navigate life's challenges with grace and strength.
So, are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth?
If so, learning how to cultivate resilience could be a valuable step towards becoming the best version of yourself.
Links to help you build resiliency in your life/business
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